My personal server is literally DYING, we went from 40 members to 25, Unlike other people's personal servers my server doesn't spam you with notifications everytime i stream (Unless you opt in to it) I only ever notify people when I upload youtube videos which only happens like once every 4 months. uh I have this cool reaction button that gives you a role so people can spam you with "need G" every 10 minutes except no one ever uses it cause I have like 25 people in the server and 6 of them are actually active. You can unreact to avoid the one time in the year someone uses it https://discord.com/invite/sWCsAYGPty
ive seen people beg for bids. never seen someone beg for friends in their server. see something new every day. get good.
